Serving is quite the art.
You balance hot plates on
one arm, take orders from multiple customers, serve drinks, and so on and so
forth. All this is done with the hope of taking a good amount of money at the
end of the day, and being able to move forward financially.
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However, we often
disregard the good work interactions that we have, and don’t, with others. For
me in particular, I have had both. With coworkers, and with customers.
I have been reminded
lately that the end-goal at work is to focus on yourself and ignore
distractions. It has been a bit difficult though, after a series of
disagreements with a coworker that have led me to be mentally exhausted almost
every day.
Understandably, everybody
is different, but her demeanor towards me has not been the most pleasant, and
it has made me uncomfortable.
Everyone’s told me: “Sebastian,
don’t worry about them. Just work and bring in the money that you need.” And
they’re right. I already feel better and more ready to take in the
disagreements.
The experience has been
completely different with the customers though. I have met people from Mexico, Germany,
the UK, and Panama, just to name a few. They share their ills, and tell me of
how different the US is. On the other side, I agree with them and tell them of
what I learned while living abroad. One customer though, an American,
eventually shared with me his writing blog and read mine as well. It was a moment
that I really appreciated, and renewed my desire to interact with others and
learn about them as much as possible.
Eventually, life is about
living and learning, and of meeting new people, whether they are pleasant or
not. Since in the end, it is you who is affected, and who matters.